The exchange of energies within the matrix of life, in regards to giving and receiving is so multifaceted that is can not be explained nor truly understood. Energies are interwoven electromagnetically around every living being.
Simplistically speaking we can break it down to patterns perpetuating themselves- and openings (clearings) that make way for new energies to form. The wholistic model of physical, emotional, mental and spiritual envelopes the energies exchanged.
Physical energies being the end result of the other three. As we traverse the spiritual path- with the intent to change our consciousness, we encounter many energies of the human family. And yes, at times we are challenged with others who do not wish for the evolution of consciousness to succeed. How do we resolve this within ourselves? One way is to be outside of the boomerang effect. When we feel energies that are non supportive to the evolutionary process, we simply have compassion for our self, and extend that to the other(s). This takes awareness and practice. Keep to our own process. Mind our own business (evolutionary process) and let others mind theirs. Eventually, when energies have nowhere to land- they are recycled into the void.
Sanctification- the ability to assist another on their path, happens naturally as a result of the inner work. Along the way, we are given assistance when needed, much like a good parent steps in when the child is yet still unaware.
This is natural law.
Asking internally and externally is imperative to change.